BEFORE YOU GO INTO RELATIONSHIP

BEFORE YOU CHOOSE  A LIFE PARTNER?

TAKE A BREAK TO DIGEST THIS GUIDELINES

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

Settling down or building a good and happy family is not a job of a day but starts a day and with just a decision which is saying to yourself that THIS IS WHO I AM GOING TO MARRY and you meant it. Wait a minute! Did you just proposed to her? This is surely a decision that will determine a long way you will be journeying once you finally achieve it.

Choosing a partner nowadays is getting more easy and easy but this actually leads so many young men and women to their graves before death. Islam don’t joke with boy-girl relationship and that is why JOKE is prohibited when it comes to seeing a lady and pronouncing your emotional thought to her or wooing her. The ease of finding a partner leads to falling into the hands of wrong partners who you might not have discovered are CARS WITHOUT ENGINES.

These little guidelines could be a help to you....

Let me be very raw and sincere with you.

Do not worry about the size of a woman's buttock or breast but

worry about the size of her heart and brain.

Worry about the size of her love and endurance.

Because after 5 or 10 years, it will not be about the breast or buttock.

As you can see, your mum now has a flat chest and

almost flat buttock. If your dad and mum still lives together happily today, then they still loves eachother as ever. This was because your dad got it right to have chosen her. You can ask your dad why he really chose your mum.

Be careful of a woman that loves money. I mean the woman that talks ‘every time’ about her hair, cloths, shoes, bags, panties and make-ups. Marriage is not all about these things. Without make-up, cloths, shoes and panties, a good marriage will still stand but without love, no marriage can stand. When your dad married mum, he might not have a car or house of his own. He might not even attended any school or has good educated. But he had dreams and she appreciated and supported him. Any woman that does not support your dream is not worth thinking a minute about. There are women that will see your dreams better than you, you are lucky if you find one.

There is a kind of woman you should avoid, do not make a mistake to marry this kind of woman or you will regret it. I mean a woman that always have bad things to say about everyone. If you see this kind of woman, run away. One of the worst kind of woman you can marry is the one that complains about everything. If you buy this,she says you should have bought that, if you do this, she says you should have done that. Please stay away!Most women enjoy talking but the one who talks for two hours and listen for two minutes is a potential ‘bomb’.

Be wise!

Be very careful of a pretending partner. A pretending woman is not hard to know. She will always know everything about everything, just close your eyes and open your heart and you will see! No woman is perfect. 

If you see a woman who believes in your dream , who respects you, who is committed and who is not all about herself alone, then don’t let her go. A WOMAN WHO CANNOT SERVE ALLAH WITH YOU IS NOT A GOOD WOMAN FOR YOU NO MATTER WHAT.

But remember, you must not be a wayward man. Be righteous and self-discipline! If a woman was forcefully given in marriage by her parents to a man she hearty disagreed to be with, such marriage is considered null and void. Be there no doubt that Islam respects women in all forms and they must not be treated otherwise once they stands where religion places them. If you find a good woman but you are a bad man, YOU WONT HAVE A GOOD MARRIAGE! If you have a good marriage, YOU WONT BE ABLE TO RAISE A GOOD HOME. If you manage to build a fairly good home, HOW WILL YOU HAVE A GOOD ENDING? Surely every decision lies with God.

MAY YOU FIND A WOMAN THAT WILL INCREASE YOU IN PIETY, GOODNESS AND PEACE & MAY GOD ASSIST YOU IN YOUR SEARCH…… Ameen.

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