ANOTHER GUIDE FOR YOUNG MISLIMS RELATIONSHIP
Yes I am Single_but_still_searchable.....
Single_but_seriously_hooked.....
Available_but_not_reachable ........
Single_but_engaged!
It's high time we stopped this! call them to notice and tell them to put full stop to it...... it's sadonic! and indeed pathetic! claiming I'm not ready but fixed....meaning please? I think it's an advanced level of courtship.
It's now very hard to see a sister 100% single but what you see is I'm hooked up without nikkah..
It's now very rampant today,when you ask many sisters hand in marriage their response will be have gotten someone, okay gotten someone fine but when should we be expecting your IV.....the next thing you will hear is; I'm in 200level now, hmmmn maybe after my
service but I will love to have my master before marriage...but you said you got someone?
Yeah!....Imagine! even amidst the so-called upright sisters, wondering how brothers wipe away their sweats only because they're in need of sisters. The funny thing is, statistically in this era of ours sisters are more than brothers even if two sisters would be for only one brother, we still have many sisters on ground and the secret of those we got fixed with, not to talk of the fitnah both sides would go through and punishment that awaits them.
Now tell me, who are those brothers we are hooking up with,for us to have just 5% left unfixed and for seeing 50% brothers seeking seriously for sisters (that shows you ain't the only one he's dating).
The 5% left ain't brothers taste anymore, you know why? they are too aged for them to cope with...I don't blame them "it was reported to have said that you should marry the one that will please you..i.e suit your majesty''.
More so, these aged sisters 95% of them was jilted by some brothers...how? because she was one of the ahlu-courtship....she was one of the sisters that got brother but not ready!...they actually kept courting till she went for service and thereafter the brother got tired
of old-girl and decided to opt-out and go for a growing-chap-girl!.
So it's very common seeing a graduate sisters nowadays''seriously searching'' and brothers available need a young chap.... now tell me is courship a blessing?
Please....let's follow the laid down protocol, Allaah alone knows who is meant for each and everyone of us and the best to become husby and wifey.... keeping him/her isn't the solution...do not force yourself to make things workout(marrying tipatipa) when Allaah has decreed someone else....Nikaah is broader than our expectations.
Please if you know you are not fully ready don't bother to make proposal and do not accept any and please ask his/her hand from his/her waliy to scape from fitnah! when you are okay with his/her deen aspect especially.
May Allaah grant us righteous spouses...Aameen
By: Abu Muadh
For: TariQQ Consult Nigeria
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