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BE ROMANTIC SISTERS!
So many marriages has failed because sisters dont know how to handles her hubby, how to make him happy and how to satisfy him intimately. Now these little tips may be of help to you.
Dear sisters,
its also part of your duty to be romantic too. Shyness doesn't mean you should be shy to express your love for your hubby, some women think that 'haya' means you should be tough even to your hubby, your husband is now your mahram by virtue of marriage.
There are 3 kinds of mahram:
-by blood,
-by kinship and
-by marriage..
Send sweet text to your husband at work, sometimes even if you are together in the same room with your husband chat with him on social networks, even though he is right there beside you it's fun !
You should be mostly chating with your husband, not non-mahrams on social networks.
Buy affordable gift for him no matter how small it's enough for you to win his heart 💝 💘 e.g. flowers.
When eating atimes use your spoon (or hand) to feed him like your baby 😊 , learn how to make snacks, cokies etc to make him happy...
Sister! use your soft voice to sing for him, be creative, a poem like (twinkle twinkle lovely spouse, how I wonder what you are, up above my world so high, like a diamond in my heart). Sing poems for him, no shyness there.
Al khansaa and khawlaa bint azwar used to sing, ibn qayyim and imam shafi used to compose poems. It's sunnah...
When your husband has gone to work, clean the house and tidy up yourself don't let him come back and see you the way he left you in the morning, cook his favourite food frequently, make it ready for him on the dining table or a safe place, tidy up yourself and the entire house again and wear a seductive dress so that when he comes back from work the first thing he will see is his pretty darling wife dressed as a better person (new bride).
His love for you will surely increase by the day... Everybody can be romantic whether poor or rich you can do it at your on level, it's all about contentment !
Don't just be welcoming your husband with an angry face because their is no money in the house or you're not in good mood at least smile :) , Allah is Ar-razaq, he is the provider. Welcome him with a warm hug always ( don't be shy 🙈 he's your property 👍🏻 ), and when he is going to work, make dua for him to return safely.
Support him, advise him, wipe his tears, be grateful to him because it's not easy to be a man, when you see his Iman depreciating preach to him,
-don't ask him for divorce,
-don't compare him with other men interms of richness,
-don't describe women to him,
-buy gifts for him too, cat-walk for him, sing for him,
-praise him in a way that he wouldn't think of a second wife ,
-be the best cook ,
- tidy up his car (or bike if has), dress him up, take care of him when he's sick...
Wake him with a peck and don't complain about his earnings..
Ask him to teach you about hadith, fiqh, seerah, usool and others..
By: Abu Nasir
For TariQQ Consult Nig.
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